Mater, my 4 year old Basset, has to be the most gentle, forgiving, unassuming, 60 lb load of ears, big eyes and wrinkles you can imagine. We have a 6 pound Maltese, who acts like the queen mother, a dynamic type A that gets knocked around every time Mater heads for the door. I wouldn't trade my Basset for anything. One of the nicest, most accepting faces you will ever see that comes trundling into the kitchen at six in the moaning. Treat yours with love and affection and you will get it back, ten-fold