I've been a lurker here for about a year. It started when my husband and I adopted a basset hound from the Humane Society about 16 months ago. When we met the dog (Lamar) he started out very friendly and happy. He wagged his tail, he let us pet him, it was all very nice and friendly. Once we had him home, however, everything started to change. Lamar started to growl, he wouldn't listen to us, he wanted his own way constantly. We brought in a trainer, and he helped us immensely with Lamar. I was unhappy because I was traumatized as a little girl by a dog, and I have high anxiety when I'm around unpredictable dogs. However, my husband was now too attached to the dog, so we decided to keep Lamar.
Fast forward to the last couple of months. My husband recently got a new job (he's gone for about 12 hours every day), and I'm currently at home, but by September I will be studying at university full time. We've agreed that we simply don't have the time or resources to address Lamar's behavioural problems. Let me state that Lamar has never bitten anyone, and these days most of his aggression happens when he's been touched while he's sleeping. He refuses to cuddle with anyone (he'll growl if you touch him excessively). We believe he was abused in some way prior to being at the Humane Society (the Humane Society has no background information for the dog, either).
I'm in a difficult position because it is my duty as a responsible owner to disclose the aggression difficulties, but I know most shelters would just euthanize the dog without first getting to know him. As soon as the words "aggressive" are spoken, it's already too late. I should also mention that these days that if I'm home alone, the aggression outbursts happen only occasionally, it's when I have friends over that the dog gets moody. (Although you must never, ever touch him while he's sleeping, regardless of who's in the house).
The dog is very good when he is outside. He loves children and strangers (he gets along well with other dogs, he never chases cats). He's a very smart, wonderful adorable little dog, we just don't have the resources to address his underlying behavioural issues.
I should state that had I known he had any aggression issues, I would never have agreed to adopt him, and neither would my husband. I feel slighted by the humane society, but also very responsible for Lamar's well being, especially because I know he's a sweetheart, he was just abused and neglected.
Any advice?
Fast forward to the last couple of months. My husband recently got a new job (he's gone for about 12 hours every day), and I'm currently at home, but by September I will be studying at university full time. We've agreed that we simply don't have the time or resources to address Lamar's behavioural problems. Let me state that Lamar has never bitten anyone, and these days most of his aggression happens when he's been touched while he's sleeping. He refuses to cuddle with anyone (he'll growl if you touch him excessively). We believe he was abused in some way prior to being at the Humane Society (the Humane Society has no background information for the dog, either).
I'm in a difficult position because it is my duty as a responsible owner to disclose the aggression difficulties, but I know most shelters would just euthanize the dog without first getting to know him. As soon as the words "aggressive" are spoken, it's already too late. I should also mention that these days that if I'm home alone, the aggression outbursts happen only occasionally, it's when I have friends over that the dog gets moody. (Although you must never, ever touch him while he's sleeping, regardless of who's in the house).
The dog is very good when he is outside. He loves children and strangers (he gets along well with other dogs, he never chases cats). He's a very smart, wonderful adorable little dog, we just don't have the resources to address his underlying behavioural issues.
I should state that had I known he had any aggression issues, I would never have agreed to adopt him, and neither would my husband. I feel slighted by the humane society, but also very responsible for Lamar's well being, especially because I know he's a sweetheart, he was just abused and neglected.
Any advice?