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I don't know if you remember a while ago the fiasco with my mother (we share a home) and for a time things were alright, but she began demanding I find different homes for the hounds ...
... I mentioned it on here in case anyone living close by might have some ideas ... I wanted to make sure if they had to go they went to good homes.
But I got a different job and I've been home more taking care of the animals and things seemed to smooth over with my mother and my dad chalked it up to maybe she was menopausal.
Anyway - now things are worse ... I need a home for either the hounds or a place I can rent that will accept me with the hounds and my kids etc.
The dogs are picking up on her antagonistic attitude towards them and unfortunately they are getting snappy and growling lots which of course is making her (my mother) even more antagonistic towards them ... and the cycle is on.
So I need a home where I can live with the kids & hounds ... or, if I can't find a place to move to I need to find a home for the hounds.
I need to move anyway, I seriously need to get out of here ... the trick is finding a place that will let me keep the hounds. -- Unfortunately it seems landlords don't feel the same way I do in that animals are just as much a part of my family as any other two-legged member.
Rentals around here are few even for a small apartment is almost more than I can afford at the moment, but a place with a yard, or big enough to accomodate all of us or willing to allow the dogs are all way out of my league for price range.
Any suggestions or advice would be greatly apprecated. You can PM me so the thread doesn't get over-run if you wish. Unfortunately (from the comments before) there's not much I can do about my mother at this point she is very firm in what she is wanting, I can do nothing about her or the way she is ... my choices are few.
If there is anyone that lives close by from this group or if you know of anyone who lives within a reasonable travelling distance and is willing to maybe take the pups in, or can help me with finding them a good home would be greatly appreciated.
I'm feeling really torn up about this and if I had any other option I'd be taking it ... and if it was a valid option I'd be finding a home for my mother instead (sorry if that sounds harsh but at this point I'm at my wits end with her).
Sorry for the rambling ... thanks for your time.
... I mentioned it on here in case anyone living close by might have some ideas ... I wanted to make sure if they had to go they went to good homes.
But I got a different job and I've been home more taking care of the animals and things seemed to smooth over with my mother and my dad chalked it up to maybe she was menopausal.
Anyway - now things are worse ... I need a home for either the hounds or a place I can rent that will accept me with the hounds and my kids etc.
The dogs are picking up on her antagonistic attitude towards them and unfortunately they are getting snappy and growling lots which of course is making her (my mother) even more antagonistic towards them ... and the cycle is on.
So I need a home where I can live with the kids & hounds ... or, if I can't find a place to move to I need to find a home for the hounds.
I need to move anyway, I seriously need to get out of here ... the trick is finding a place that will let me keep the hounds. -- Unfortunately it seems landlords don't feel the same way I do in that animals are just as much a part of my family as any other two-legged member.
Rentals around here are few even for a small apartment is almost more than I can afford at the moment, but a place with a yard, or big enough to accomodate all of us or willing to allow the dogs are all way out of my league for price range.
Any suggestions or advice would be greatly apprecated. You can PM me so the thread doesn't get over-run if you wish. Unfortunately (from the comments before) there's not much I can do about my mother at this point she is very firm in what she is wanting, I can do nothing about her or the way she is ... my choices are few.
If there is anyone that lives close by from this group or if you know of anyone who lives within a reasonable travelling distance and is willing to maybe take the pups in, or can help me with finding them a good home would be greatly appreciated.
I'm feeling really torn up about this and if I had any other option I'd be taking it ... and if it was a valid option I'd be finding a home for my mother instead (sorry if that sounds harsh but at this point I'm at my wits end with her).
Sorry for the rambling ... thanks for your time.