Yes I totally agree. I don't come around here often but during the times I do I don't recall anyone being rude to anyone.
It can't be done. Some people are offened by inocculous comments and take personal response that are made when the response was general and not specific.Nobody should feel attacked or intimidated or hurt by someones reply
I rest my case when one has to infer they are being attacked they can just as easily do the opposite It does no one anyone good to water down advice because someone might infer they are being attacked.i felt it was being implied