[murraysmom]

Most bassets, dogs and puppies, when introduced to new situations, need reassurance. This isn't unique to this particular dog; it would be necessary with almost any basset. You might need to modify your expectations a bit during this adjustment period. Some of our rescues have slept beside us, either on the bed or floor, with a hand on them, the first few nights they've been in our home. It doesn't go on forever, though. If you can get through the adjustment phase, he should get a bit less needy. Good luck--you're doing a really generous thing by accommodating this poor fella. [/b]

I agree with Betsy.

If this were me, I'd try putting the nice soft bed you got him next to your bed tonight .Put his leash on so he can't wander off his bed, and give him something to chew on. When he tries to jump on the bed, push him down with a firm "off"- then praise him. Maybe leave a hand on his back for reassurance.Ignore whining and fussing (after making sure he doesn't have to pee).

I brought Murray home 5 years ago to 2 agressive dachshunds who wanted to kill him. Really. I remember going upstairs after a few hours of turmoil, lying on the bed, and thinking "What have I done!" It got better.

You are probably going through the worst of your misgivings right now. Things are different in your home at the moment. You are both adjusting to a big change, but remember that YOU ARE SMARTER THAN HE IS.

I'm thinking of you and hoping for the best! Good luck!