[joanr]

How very sad. I have pretty much the same thing with my mom, caused my medication, and diet. So in an effort to clear that up, the bladder stopped working. If Lady is on any med.'s you'll have to rule that out.
It kinda sounds like she is relaxing her muscles to soon, or they are always relaxed. I hope the vet can help you.
Joan

 

[joanr]

I'm curios what the vet finds. My cat would go poop near his box when he got about 16 or so, like he had no idea he missed. Or he would just be walking across a room and go, and acted like it never happened. But he never got any other signs of dementia. My mom also had a partail blockage in the bowell system, causing a complete loss of controll. I know people and dogs are entierly different but you might want to rule that out. It's no fun running around cleaning up poo.
Good luck!
Joan