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Merlin just turned a year old and have his scheduled to be neutered soon. This is important because we were told that his behaviour could improve after that. We intended to do regardless.
Lately Merlin had gotten increasingly more possessive of his food. Now we did switch foods because he didn't seem overly interested in his previous food, this one he seems to love which is great.
The cats love it too. Particularly Loki.
Now we were using an auto feeder but after a couple of months I decided that it wasn't a good fit and we went back to regular bowl feedings at the same times.
He's been possessive of really tasty treats and so we make sure to limit those to when we know that he can be left alone. However Loki just haunts the poor guy.
I've been locking the cat away from Merlin during meals and he seems a bit more relaxed unless you walk near him or talk to him, then he panic eats his food and gets super tense.
This behaviour isn't new, it's just slowly been building despite working with a trainer.
Tonight I was in the kitchen making a snack and gave him one too so he could take his meds (he hurt his leg over the weekend and it's an old ACL injury flaring up) and I stepped towards him and he lunged at me growling. I yelled "hey" in a low growl and he immediately backed off his food and seemed startled. The cat was loose and I thought maybe he thought I was the cat behind him.
Regardless, I am spooked. He's my dog, he's bonded strongly to me and seems to only ever listen to me. I can take anything out of his mouth and hand feed him without issues. My husband and daughter cannot, despite my efforts to encourage it and show them, they just aren't wanting to.
I play the take it/leave it game with him which he gets. Although he's very stubborn, sensitive and bad the energy of a lab, I wonder if we should switch back to the food he hated because he was less possessive.
I know I'm probably doing something wrong here. I do my best to make sure he's left alone when eating, I do want to be able to stand near him (our home isn't that large) and be able to remove his dish, food or him, if the need arises.
I'm just not confident suddenly. He's generally such a good dog.
Lately Merlin had gotten increasingly more possessive of his food. Now we did switch foods because he didn't seem overly interested in his previous food, this one he seems to love which is great.
The cats love it too. Particularly Loki.
Now we were using an auto feeder but after a couple of months I decided that it wasn't a good fit and we went back to regular bowl feedings at the same times.
He's been possessive of really tasty treats and so we make sure to limit those to when we know that he can be left alone. However Loki just haunts the poor guy.
I've been locking the cat away from Merlin during meals and he seems a bit more relaxed unless you walk near him or talk to him, then he panic eats his food and gets super tense.
This behaviour isn't new, it's just slowly been building despite working with a trainer.
Tonight I was in the kitchen making a snack and gave him one too so he could take his meds (he hurt his leg over the weekend and it's an old ACL injury flaring up) and I stepped towards him and he lunged at me growling. I yelled "hey" in a low growl and he immediately backed off his food and seemed startled. The cat was loose and I thought maybe he thought I was the cat behind him.
Regardless, I am spooked. He's my dog, he's bonded strongly to me and seems to only ever listen to me. I can take anything out of his mouth and hand feed him without issues. My husband and daughter cannot, despite my efforts to encourage it and show them, they just aren't wanting to.
I play the take it/leave it game with him which he gets. Although he's very stubborn, sensitive and bad the energy of a lab, I wonder if we should switch back to the food he hated because he was less possessive.
I know I'm probably doing something wrong here. I do my best to make sure he's left alone when eating, I do want to be able to stand near him (our home isn't that large) and be able to remove his dish, food or him, if the need arises.
I'm just not confident suddenly. He's generally such a good dog.