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Ever since we adopted Layla (~ 2 months ago), Rosco has been incredibly jealous. If Layla is getting attention (petting, laying on someone's lap, spoken to), he has to come over and shove himself into the mix. He will jump on her back, plow into her, gnaw at her ears, etc. When we buy chew bones or rawhides, there is a "good" bone and a "bad" bone. The good one is the one Layla has, even if it is a different bone every few minutes. He will lay at her feet and whimper/bark at her until we tell him to stop, and then he will wander around, moping. Layla, for her part, is bigger than Rosco and can usually push him around, so he might also be feeling a bit lower on the totem pole now.
They get along really well - they fight and play and tear around with each other, and they sleep next to each other when things are quiet. The only time there is any aggression at all is ocassionally over a bone. Layla was very possessive of chew bones when we first got her and she would nip at us when we or Rosco tried to take them, but we have always corrected her by taking away the bone. She seems to be better now and not aggressive with us, but every so often she and Rosco will have a tiff over a bone or a toy. I'm less concerned about these events because they are not out unsupervised, and we can monitor them when they flare up and correct them. What I was wondering is if there is any kind of training I can do besides telling Rosco to stop being jealous. If I can reinforce the idea that he shouldn't behave this way with some other technique I would like to. They both get a ton of attention, I think he is just kind of a spoiled dog (he's my first, and I definitely babied him). So, any suggestions? |
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that sounds just like toby and hank. when we got toby, he was the only dog in the house because hank was living with my mom. so when hank came back to live with us, toby got jealous. he always goes after the toy in hanks mouth, tries to eat hanks food, take the bone hank has even though they both have the exact same one. he's gotten especially jealous since hank had his surgery and has been getting a lot of attention. i just try and give them equal attention.
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I'm glad you asked that question, because we kind of have a similar issue. When we hand out treats, they can be the exact same size, type, flavor, etc, but Daisy will always want what everyone else has instead of what she has been given. She will go and sit beside another dog (with what you call the 'good' treat) and proceed to make a spectacle of herself by whimpering, flopping over on her side, twit-twit-twitting her tail, sniffing at the other dog, nudging at them with her nose - it's really a bit comical. Except that she annoys the heck out of the other dogs...to the point they snap at her or abandon their treat altogether. It also happens with their toys, and their comfy dog beds. I read somewhere that this is an evolutionary trait called obnoxious submissiveness, but don't have a clue how to handle it. Please help!
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Sounds like a lot of bassets have the same behavior. Flash does the exact same thing with our 10 year old Lab. Flash will not "allow" Oscar to have anything in his mouth. If he's carrying a ball, toy, stick, or whatever. Flash constantly jumps at his mouth and tries to steal it or make him drop it. Once Flash gets it, he takes about 4 steps and drops it. He doesn't seem to want the toy, he just doesn't want Oscar to have it.
I keep thinking Oscar will get a little aggressive with him, just to tell him to back off but he never does. When Flash was a pup, I used to scold Oscar when he was too rough with him, so now I'm assuming he thinks he'll be in trouble if he's aggressive with him. Sometimes I just have to put Flash in his kennel so Oscar can have 15 minutes to eat a bone in peace. Even if I give them each one, Flash will discard his to go after Oscars. Same for petting. If i'm petting Oscar, Flash always tries to get between us and get some attention. Seems my Flash has it all........jealousy, bullying, and spoiled brat syndrome! |
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First of you do not know the emotional reason for the behavior so calling it jealousy add so much negative conotation that it makes correcting the behavior unlikely. The most insidious part blaming an emotional response on the part of the dog as the problem jealousy, spite etc it exonerates you for the part of the behavior that is learned and unintentionally rewarded which is the far more likely cause. Even though we can never really know the cause approaching it a a behavior problem that can trained allows us to fix it, Trying to use phsycoanlysis on a dog to change its emotional response has never been effect. Let us take the first behavior, butting in when another is being petted. What actual happens is the dog is reward for this push obnoxious behavior by getting petted and attention as well. What the dog learn that the best time to get petted or attention is when another dog is. So is this jeolousy or a learned behavior? Solution is to stop reward rude and obnoxious behavior. Also practice a policy of defference. That is the dog that is sitting quitely is the one that gets the attention not the one rushing to you. It is admittedly hard to too because it is contrary to human nature but it goes along way to creating a peaceful household, Some ideas on how to stop rewarding the behavior are in the links below "You Won the Prize!" Quote:
But because of the extinction burst, it is general diffcult to actual stop a obnoxious behavior simply by ignoring it. What general works better is train and then reward consistently an alternate behavior that is inconsistent with the unwanted behavior. such as teach the dog a specific place to get petted, or to sit quitely to get petted. Keep in mind that this new behavior must be taught to the dog first in a low distraction i.e. no other dogs around before you add aditional distraction and excitement level. Stopping Negative Behavior Positively, Quote:
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Examines manipulation as part of social life, and the dog's need for clear boundaries & leadership. now if you want to stop sthe behavior here is one approach. working with each dog seperately theach each of them an indivdual spot the they are to go to get a reward, be fed etc. You can start this with quickly consumed treated at first and move on to longer term ones like bone. When using longer term one reward the dog often with an additional treat at first when they remain in their spot with the bone. If the move return then to their spot but don't reward. Quickly the dogs will learn the benefits in stay in their spot. One the dogs have learned this then you can sart doing this with two dogs at the same time or even multiple dogs they get an extra treat for staying in place while a dog that move get none but is also move back to their spot. |
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with take it one the dog gains possesion the game is over hence no reason to continue. I knoe with mine in such games that are certain ones in a game of chase that are never the rabbit. etc each dogs will have there individual preferrences and dogs in general are very good at acoomidiating each other so each can be highly satisfied in any social setting. while not an easy read check out [url=http://www.nonlineardogs.com/SocOrgDomDog_Jay_.art.pdfl]The Social Organization of the Domestic Dog: A Longitudinal Study of Domestic Canine Behavior and the Ontogeny of Canine Social Systems Quote:
from Why Can't a Dog Be More Like a Dog? Quote:
for more on behaviorist learning theory see Learning Theory 101 How Dog Training Works Clicking With Canines From Your Dog's Point of View With a great example of unintentional rewarding of a behavior Quote:
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How about when she annoys her siblings to death until they abandon their doggy bed for her? Is there a way we should be intervening? (We are guilty of laughing sometimes - I know that we often misinterpret the intent of canine behavior, but I swear it really looks like the other dogs literally sigh, roll their eyes, and surrender their bed in disgust to their annoying little sister...) |
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Exactly if the already have predetermined spot for meal time I would further reinforce this with treat dispensing. On a side this usually result is the dogs getting to their spots even quicker during meal time because the behavior is more ingrained. Quote:
Keep in mind this may not involve daisy but all the other dogs. But keep ithe biggest reason the behavior continues is because the other dog are willing to reward Daisy for her behavior. My point of view generally is if the dogs do not have a problem with it , then should You? If however there annoyance some times involves more aggressive act to drive her off and you are concerned about it possible escalating to the point one get hurt then certainly intervene, The same can be done with dog bed etc as above with dog treets dog get rewarded for being on their own particular bed and only on their bed The are also not allowed on other beds and will be move if found there. Keep in mind most basset have other even more deceitful and manipulative tactics to getting a desired spot. The classic is the false alarm bark. That is dog use an alarm bark and runs to a spot IE. window, outdoors, etc like they normal do but there is nothing to be excited about. When the other dogs respond by getting up to see whats up the Original barker slips into the desired spot. In dog society possession is way more than 9/10 of the law. Keep in mind such manipulation is a normal and necessary part of any society human or other animal. How old is daisy? if less than 6 months part of the reaction of the other dogs could be puppy liciense, ie she gets away with thing they would not tollerate in an adult. This liciense gets revoked during puberty when hormone level in the pup increase, Puppy License The Puppy and the Young Dog - About Growing Up Last edited by Mikey T; 06-03-2010 at 06:39 PM. |
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